Thursday, September 20, 2018

Belarus


5-6 September: Destination Minsk

Despite my best efforts to be organised, the 24 hours before my departure were pretty hectic - tying up loose ends at work, making a few last minute purchases, packing, and dealing with messages coming from Belarus.

The first big news from Belarus was that Alexey Vaytkun had broken his leg and because he lived upstairs in an apartment with no lift, he would have to go and stay with his parents to be looked after.  Since they did not live in Minsk he would not be able to meet me on 6 September as planned.  Poor Alexey!  We were both really sorry to miss one another.

In the same email Alexey said that in preparation for my visit Valentina Novitskaya had been to visit the former Tarbeyev estate and the site of the former family home there.  Only foundations now remained and it was deep in the forest, so she had had to be guided to the site by a local hunter. Mrs Novitskaya said that visiting the site of the former family house would involve a 2 kilometre walk over difficult country.  She wanted to check through Alexey whether I really wanted to make all that effort.  I quickly assured her that I did.  I wasn’t going to travel for almost 30 hours to Minsk, and then on to Shumilino district near Vitebsk and be put off by a 2 kilometre walk!

The next big news was that Alexey Adashkin emailed to tell me that he had organised for a TV company to do a short item on my visit to the former family estate and surrounding district on Saturday 8 September.

In the early afternoon of 5 September, Helen took me to the airport.  The flight was to Sydney, but my bags were checked through to Minsk, via Sydney and Abu Dhabi (flying with Etihad Airways).  In true New Zealand style, we met people we knew at the airport - Nicki, Helen’s cousin and her partner Norrie.  They were off to Sydney.


Nicki took this photo for us.

I arrived in Minsk just after noon on 6 September.  My flights had been pretty uneventful, and I had been able to get some sleep.  When I arrived in Minsk after almost a 30-hour journey I had a long wait for my suitcase, which didn’t appear!  There was good news and bad news.  The good news was that the person at the luggage counter was helpful and the suitcase could be traced in the system.  It was still in Abu Dhabi!  The bad news was that there was a flight from Abu Dhabi only every second day, so I would be in Vitebsk by the time the next plane arrived.  The person at the luggage counter and I agreed that she would arrange my suitcase to be delivered to the hotel I would be staying at in Minsk on the night of 9 September.  Unfortunately, that meant that I would be without my luggage for 3 days, which contained the clergy clothes I had wanted to wear for the visit to the estate, gifts for those whom I would meet there, and some papers for the local historical museum in Shumilino.

After going through Customs I was met by Pyotr and the hotel driver.  Despite the inconvenience of not having my luggage, I felt really excited.  It was like a dream finally to be in Minsk after such a lot of planning and on this special journey to connect with my family roots in Belarus.  The driver took us to the hotel and I didn’t actually feel like sleeping, so I made a few arrangements, washed any clothes I could do without tonight and talked with Pyotr for a while.  I was also excited to get the news that Alexey Vaytkun, the researcher, would now be travelling to his parents’ place on the evening of the following day, so we would be able to meet on the morning of that day.

Pyotr and I went out to the Kamyanitsa Restaurant in Minsk, to have dinner with Alexey Adashkin, who had been such a help in making connections with people in Belarus.  The restaurant advertises itself as serving traditional Belarusian food and Alexey helped me to choose potato pancakes, which were delicious, and another traditional recipe.  Unfortunately, the serving of potato pancakes in a rich mushroom sauce with cranberries, which I had thought would be entrĂ©e-size, was enormous, so by the time I got to the main course, which was ordinary pancakes with a rich meat sauce, I could only nibble at it.  I had my first glass of kvass - a traditional (fifty centuries of tradition!) very low alcohol drink brewed from rye bread.  Alexey described it as “Belarusian Coca-Cola”, because it was a dark colour and drunk by lots of people on all sorts of occasions.  Alexey also asked whether I would like to try an alcoholic drink that was a form of whiskey distilled with oranges.  It was fine too, but as I had a sip or two I got in touch with how tired I was (I had not slept since the flight to Abu Dhabi).  So I declined the next option of honey mead in case they might have to carry me out of the restaurant!


Pyotr and Alexey at the Kamyanitsa Restaurant

A feature of the meal at the restaurant was some traditional music performed by a man with a shawm-like instrument and a woman on the drum and tambourine.  Another woman encouraged people to participate in folk dancing and Pyotr gamely joined in.  I did not participate (I am uncoordinated enough even when I can understand the instructions!) but Alexey and I took photos and a video or two.


Pyotr was one of the first up, and was joined later by others.

We walked back from the restaurant to our hotel around 9pm.  I noticed that the streets were not as bright as they might be at home and that there was a lot less traffic, but there were quite a few people out walking - mainly young people.  It felt safe to be out walking at that hour of night, and Pyotr took us straight back to the hotel, so he had a great sense of direction.  I lay down on the bed and fell asleep almost immediately.  Then I woke up ready for the next day around 3am Minsk time, (which was noon back home), so my body clock was still adjusting.



7 September: A visit to Alexey Vaytkun and then on to Vitebsk

This morning we checked out of the hotel around 10am as we were due to go to Alexey Vaytkun’s place.  But first, we went to a nearby shopping centre as I needed a top up on my Belarusian SIM card, so that I could read my gmail messages, one of which had directions for how we were to get to Alexey’s place.  Another reason we needed data was that Pyotr and I were communicating mainly by Google Translate!

We got the top up, and then I went to get some money at a currency exchange place while Pyotr was shopping in a particular shop.  There was a miscommunication between us because I thought I had asked Pyotr to wait for me, but by the time I returned, Pyotr had left the shop.  After phoning him a couple of times without an answer and after waiting a while, I began to think that it wasn’t just the family history that was lost at this point.  I was lost too!  This was only one of the times on this part of the trip when I recognised how indispensable Pyotr’s help was.  Finally he returned and we took a taxi to Alexey’s place.

On the way there Mrs Novitskaya called to ask for our shoe size and clothes size so that she could find us suitable clothing for the walk to the house in the forest tomorrow.  Pyotr spoke with her as she spoke no English.  Mrs Novitskaya was so energetic and bright on the phone, and she was being so thoughtful and hospitable.  I was looking forward to meeting her tomorrow.

For me the appointment with Alexey was really important.  He had done a great job of researching documents relating to the family history in Belarus – going to the National Historical Archive in Minsk and travelling to Vitebsk to work in the archives there for another week.  But there was a heart connection with him too, through his insight into the significance of the work I was doing to discover what family history I could in Belarus, and his genuine care for me on this journey.  There were other points of connection too - his interest in imperial Russia and the Russian Orthodox Church, and the fact that we had both been on pilgrimage to Jerusalem and Mt Athos.  He had shared a bit of his life with me in the correspondence we had had, and we had both responded emotionally to aspects of this shared journey of discovery.  So our meeting was one of the things I had most anticipated in coming to Belarus.

Without Pyotr I could hardly imagine that I would have found the correct entrance to Alexey’s apartment block, but we got to the right place and Alexey, propped up on crutches, opened the door.  We embraced warmly.  Then he invited us in and we sat at his table together.  


Sitting with Alexey Vaytkun

Alexey had copied some historical documents in their original sizes.  He spent time going through the significance of each one - the documents of the estate in 1906, the consistent decline into poverty of my great grandfather Ivan’s brother Georgii, which was traced through tax and property records of the late 1910s and early 1920s, and the handwritten application by Georgii to work as a teacher at the Poddubyie village school on the former family estate, which was granted by the authorities.  Georgii was unmarried and there is no record of his having any children, but he is recorded as having two nephews living with him and his two sisters and others in his home.  If the nephews were sons of his sister(s) then their family name would not have been Tarbeyev, but something different.  Sadly, we do not now know what that was.

I recorded our conversation so that I could glean any further information from it.  One lovely thing Alexey said was that as a family researcher he remembers all the families he has helped, and if by any chance he were to come across information about a family that he has previously researched, he would always provide it to the family concerned.  So perhaps one day further details will become available about our family connections in Belarus.  But whatever happens, I believe that he will always be a friend through this shared experience of finding my family’s history in Belarus, even though he was a total stranger not long ago.

We took a taxi back to the shopping centre, I bought a few clothes for the coming days and we caught the train to Vitebsk.  When we got there I felt strongly that I was nearing my goal.  Pyotr and I took some photos at the railway station to mark the occasion.  


We had arrived at Vitebsk

Then Pyotr took me on foot straight to Komsomolskaya Street 7, where we were booked to stay the night.  I was impressed.  It turned out that he had spoken to Mrs Novitskaya on the phone and had been given directions by her.  The entrance to the apartments was not on the street side of the building but down a little alley and around behind it.  Again I would not have found the right place without his help.


8 September: At home on the estate

I had a relaxed start to the day with Pyotr, and then Valentina Novitskaya came with Viktor, the driver of our minibus, to pick us up.  First we went to the Marc Chagall museum.  At the bottom of the street there was a lovely sculpture of Chagall, and we took some photos there.


The angel on the arch is like the figures Chagall himself painted.

Denis Koshelev from MIR TV, with his cameraman Igor, arrived from Minsk to make a Sunday evening programme on my visit.  After that we went to Chagall's childhood home.  Mrs Novitskaya had arranged for a tour in English from a knowledgeable guide, Elena.



Elena at the Chagall museum

There was a lot to learn about Chagall on the tour.  I heard about his loving, religiously observant (Hasidic) but open family circle.  When he wanted to paint they did not forbid it, even though the depiction of creatures was not permitted in strict Hasidic practice.  Some memorable things that I learned about Chagall were his deep love for his first wife Bella, his gratefulness and positive take on life, and the spiritual joy that went with that.

I was also strongly affected by the sadness of the story of the Jewish people in Vitebsk (and other places in the region, no doubt).  In Chagall’s day more than 50 percent of the inhabitants of Vitebsk were Jewish.  Now Jewish people are only one percent of the total population of the city.  We went to the ruined synagogue, which was within easy walking distance of the Chagall’s house.  It was a big building and must have been impressive in its day.  Now it was broken down and had been disfigured by graffiti.


The ruined synagogue

We then went on to the Marc Chagall Art Centre in Vitebsk to see an exhibition of his lithographs and some other works, all of which had been donated to the centre by people who wanted to support it.  There was a special exhibition on Chagall’s first wife, Bella Rosenfeld, and her writings.

After lunch in Vitebsk, we travelled to Shumilino District.  We arrived at the Council building to what seemed to me to be a Belarusian version of a Maori Powhiri - a speech of welcome with singing and dancing according to Belarusian custom.  I could hardly believe that my visit had prompted all of this!  It communicated such a welcome to me as ‘long lost family’ from the other end of the earth.  



I was welcomed at the Council steps by Irina, the Deputy Chair of the Shumilino Executive Committee.




She hosted a reception for me inside the Council buildings, at which there were several Council employees and other invited guests. 



Galina, a local English teacher who acted as an interpreter was on my left and Valentina Novitskaya next to her

Among the other guests was a local family that shared my great grandfather’s family name of Tarbeyev.  They were probably not blood relations, but their ancestors could well have lived on the estate and have taken the name of the estate owner as a result.  Another woman, Tamara Yakovleva, who was not related to this family, was also present.  She remembered her grandmother saying how beautiful the family estate Ekaterinhof was when my ancestors lived there.  A photo was taken of us after the reception outside the Council buildings.



From the left: Tamara Yakovleva, Mrs Tarbeyev senior, Tamara Tarbeyeva, Pyotr, Sergei and Ivan Tarbeyev.


After this reception, Pyotr and I were thoughtfully given protective clothing to wear for our walk through the forest to the site of the former estate house.  This was “army surplus” clothing and boots.  "Spetsnaz!", Pyotr chuckled.



This photo was taken a bit later, when we were at the former family estate.

We left in the minibus for the Village of Sirotino.  On the way, Svetlana, who managed the Shumilino local lore museum, told me how delighted she was that the museum could help me to find my roots in Belarus.  There was something remarkable about the emotional warmth she communicated.  I felt so blessed to be surrounded by such goodwill.


Svetlana on the bus to Sirotino

At Sirotino I was again given a lovely welcome - this time with gifts of bread and fresh fruit and vegetables and honey and jam.  Part of the ritual of this welcome was for me and those with me to taste some of the local fresh produce.  I then said goodbye to the Tarbeyev family who had met me at the Shumilino District Council, and we picked up a local hunter, Vladimir, who would be our guide to the Tarbeyev estate and the site of the former house, now hidden in the forest.


Vladimir was a knowledgeable and warm-hearted man

The story about the discovery of the house is an interesting one.  When the researcher Alexey Vaytkun contacted the Shumilino museum of local lore about the Tarbeyev family and their former estate, a message went out through local connections to seek to identify the precise location of the estate and whether any buildings from the former estate were still standing.  Vladimir had been hunting elk and wild pig in the area for years.  He contacted the museum to say that he knew that there had once been a building in the forest.  It had obviously been a significant place because its foundations were made of high-grade stone that was not available locally.  It was on the high point of the former estate and was identified as the house that had belonged to my ancestors, but only the foundations of the house now remained.  Valentina had gone earlier with Vladimir to reconnoitre and make sure that it would be worthwhile to bring me.

We reached the place where we needed to walk into the forest, and Valentina, Irina, Galina, Vladimir, Pyotr and I made our way through the forest to the location of the house.  Vladimir was a good guide.  On the way to the house he showed us a trench and a fox hole from fighting in the Second World War, which is called ‘the Great Patriotic War’ in Russia and former Russian territories. It is not surprising that so little remained of the house if the fighting was that close.  



Evidence of a trench from the Second World War in the forest close to the house.

Vladimir also pointed out where exotic specimen trees had been planted and suggested that they might have been planted at the boundaries of the gardens of the house.  He showed us a glade with specimen trees, which was still relatively clear of undergrowth, and suggested that it was probably part of the gardens.


The garden glade

At the actual place where the house had been we could find one of the foundation walls, some other foundation stones, and old glass, metal, crockery and pottery in the surrounding soil, some of which I gathered up for family members.



The foundation wall



Pyotr with his hand on the foundation wall

I had a sense of the protection and nurture that this place had formerly given to my ancestors, and a sense of gratitude - for those ancestors, for the house and for the fact that I had been able to reach that spot.  I took some time to thank God for all of that.  Then some photos were taken and we headed back to join the others.


From the left: Vladimir, Pyotr, Galina, Irina and Valentina

On the way back from the house, Vladimir pointed out the roadway that a century ago had led up to the house on the high point of the estate.  It was great to have his keen eye for the features of the forest and what could still be gleaned from them.


The old road in the forest

When we joined the others, they had set out a picnic under an oak tree as it was close to dinner time.  There were barbecued sausages, and we had the abundant bread, fresh fruit and vegetables from Sirotino still to enjoy together.  Those of us who had walked in to the house site went down to the nearby Usysk River, which had been part of the estate in former times.  



The Usysk River on the former estate

From there Vladimir indicated where the three villages on the family estate - Mishki, Puzanovo and Poddubyie - had all been situated, and he also pointed out to us the exact site where Poddubyie school used to be.  This site is significant for our family history as my great grandfather’s brother George worked there as a teacher for a few years after the revolution.


The stones behind me were part of the foundations of the school

The group then enjoyed a picnic together with good food and drink, conversation and laughter.  The vodka came out, there were toasts and, as the evening drew on, songs were sung in Russian that were familiar to the group.  I had the strongest sense of appreciation for this event, which had the effect of connecting me deeply to the soil of this place that had been so special to my ancestors.  They would have enjoyed picnics on the estate over many years, and here I was doing the same thing.  The village name Poddubyie even means ‘under the oak tree’, which was where this picnic was.  To visit the site of the former estate house had been very special, but it was capped off by this experience of relaxed enjoyment with people whose deep warmth and hospitality had been shown to me.  Throughout the day and especially during the picnic they had given me the gift of feeling truly at home.



As the night came on, we packed up the picnic and visited a local craft museum (at which we again sat down to food and drink!) and then we went to the Shumilino local lore museum, where the staff had been so helpful to Alexey Vaytkun.  They even presented a special display on the Tarbeyev family.


The display in the museum, with items found on the site of the house displayed on the table.

We were then taken back to our accommodation in Vitebsk towards 10pm after a very full and emotional day.  I had dreamed of one day visiting the old family estate, and now this dream had become a reality.



9 September: Historic Polotsk

Valentina came early with the driver to collect us from our accommodation in Vitebsk and we went off to visit two famous sites in the ancient city of Polotsk, where my great grandfather was born.  On the way we picked up Galina, who would act as my translator again for that day.  Valentina had arranged visits to these two sites as an extra expression of hospitality, knowing that, as a Priest, I would be interested in the religious history of the area.  Both the sites we visited are Unesco World Heritage sites. 

The first place we visited was a convent established by St Euphrosyne of Polotsk in 1125.


Approaching the St Euphrosyne convent

St Euphrosyne came from an influential noble family and, like Mechtild of Magdeburg and some other female saints of this period, was a polymath, with outstanding learning, holiness and influence on political leaders.  She is now the patron saint of Belarus.

I was given a tour in English by one of the more than 100 sisters living in the convent (it was not permitted to take her photo).  The most special place she showed me was the stone Church of the Transfiguration, built in 1161.  It had some important frescoes (again not to be photographed).  They had been painted by Byzantine artists and reminded me of some of the frescoes I had seen at Vatopedi monastery on Mt Athos.  We also visited the much larger Holy Cross Cathedral.


The Church of the Transfiguration is on the right, and the Holy Cross Cathedral on the left.

In the Cathedral are the relics of St Euphrosyne.  In the Orthodox faith, the physical remains of people who were notably holy are considered to retain some of that person's holiness.  It makes sense really, when we are both spiritual and physical, that a person's holiness does not just reside in their spirit, but in their physical body as well.

The casket containing the body of St Euphrosyne

It was a Sunday and the Cathedral was full of people for the liturgy.  In my discussion with the Sister who was guiding me, and in the beautiful convent precinct and churches within it, I strongly sensed the presence of God.  It was a wonderful place to visit.  We were also welcomed to lunch at a place outside the convent walls where families of the sisters and other guests receive hospitality.

Next we went to the St Sophia Cathedral, which was built in the 11th century and is considered to be the oldest church in Belarus.  


The St Sophia Cathedral is set in a commanding position above the Dvina River.

It is now used as a public auditorium rather than a place of worship.  Perhaps because of this, and even despite its beauty, it seemed to me to have much less spiritual presence than the Convent of St Euphrosyne.


The interior of the Cathedral

Valentina had us back in Vitebsk in time for our train, and I felt so full of gratitude to her and appreciation for all she had done.  She really had thought of everything.


Pyotr with Galina and Valentina

We travelled back to our hotel near the Minsk Railway Station and my suitcase was there!  It was great to see it, and I was able to put out some of the items I had brought for Valentina, ready to post them the following day.



10 September: My driver was a dentist

The main thing about today was always going to be the flights from Minsk to Kiev in the Ukraine and then on to Yerevan in Armenia for my Cox and Kings tour of Armenia and Georgia.  Pyotr also needed to get his flight back to Russia, so we got to the airport in Minsk in plenty of time, and sat eating bread and the delicious jam that we were given in Sirotino.  Amazingly, I broke a tooth eating bread and jam!  At first I thought the discomfort might have come from seeds in the bread getting stuck between two teeth, but no such luck.  I simply needed to catch my flights and hope that sometime soon I would be able to see a dentist.

Pyotr had kindly arranged for Gurgen Harutyunyan, the nephew of a friend of his, to pick me up from Yerevan airport.  I had nothing to declare so I went straight through and Gurgen and his friend Edgar (I didn’t know if they were kidding me or not, but they assured me that Edgar was his name) met me right outside the exit.  They thought I looked like Bill Gates, so they were laughing and calling me Bill on the way to the hotel.  They asked me whether I was hungry, and I was, so after dropping my bag off in my room at the hotel, we drove around Yerevan looking for a place to eat.  We finally stopped at a shawarma place for a feed.


Gurgen is in the middle and Edgar on the left. 

Edgar’s English was okay, Gurgen had very little English and I had not one word of Armenian.  But we got on very well, and Gurgen kindly insisted on paying for dinner as I was a guest.  One surprising thing that Gurgen said during the conversation was that he was a dentist!  And I had wanted to see a dentist soon, so that was an amazing coincidence!!  Still, I decided to take some advice from my travel insurers about their requirements before I spoke to Gurgen about my tooth.

Gurgen and Edgar dropped me back to the hotel around 1am.  I had had a lovely, fun welcome to Armenia.

Friday, August 31, 2018


Hi everyone

I hope that blogging will work as well this time in keeping you up to date with my travels as it did last time.  There’s a lot about blogging I have forgotten, so I will need to get up to speed quickly again.

The Lost History

1 September 2018: Before my sabbatical: reflections

As a child in my family home, I became familiar with some interesting information about my father’s heritage.  My father was half-Russian.  His mother, Mirra Ivanovna Benge had come to New Zealand in 1919 after marrying a New Zealand soldier, Onslow Benge, in France at the end of the First World War.  Mirra’s father, Ivan Mikhailovich Tarbeyev - formerly a Major-General in the Russian Imperial Army - and her mother, Maria Federovna Tarbeyeva, joined their daughter in New Zealand in 1920.  They both died before I was born, and my Russian grandmother died not long after I was born.

From left: my father Michael, his mother Mirra, his sister Lola, his father Onslow, and in front, his grandmother Maria Federovna Tarbeyeva or "babushka", the General's wife.

In our family home we had some mementos of my father’s Russian heritage – including the General’s cavalry sabre and medals, and a couple of icons.  We also had some family stories - notably about the family estate near Vitebsk in Belarus, which was confiscated from the family at the time of the Russian revolution.  Apart from these taonga, my father’s Russian heritage seemed to his sons to be most noticeable in aspects of his temperament, interests and behaviour.  He loved opera and singing (the General had been a fine tenor) and we had several records of the Don Cossack choir, Russian bass singers singing folk songs etc.  My father was also a capable linguist and had learned Russian both at university and from his mother.  His emotions were notably close to the surface and he would often weep at stories or songs that moved him.  He would hug his sons, and we all appreciated that warm expression of his affection.  He also had a real openness to employing in his real estate business people who had come to New Zealand as migrants from Eastern Europe and the Levant, perhaps as a result of his understanding of the difficulties that migrants could face in becoming incorporated in a new land.


Some of the treasures at our family home: two icons, the General's Serbian order of the White Eagle, and his sabre with the George Cross and ribbon (awarded for valour)
My father and mother also had a few close friends who were migrants from Russia - notably the Marx/McDonnell/Fyodorov family and the Artemiev family.  We would often catch up with them on special occasions, particularly at Easter time, when the menu would feature not only piroshki but also kulich and paskha and other delicious Russian food.

Towards the end of my father’s life, he began to research his Russian heritage through a family researcher in Saint Petersburg.  The researcher, Elena Tsvetkova, discovered that the Tarbeyev family had its origins in Russia in 1340 when a man named Merdulat bei Murza Tarbei came from the mongol Golden Horde (probably bringing soldiers with him) into the service of the then Prince of Moscow, Semyon Ivanovich Gordyi (The Proud).  At his baptism this ancestor took the name Semyon Tarbeyev.  For his service to the Prince, he was made a member of the hereditary Russian nobility.  Documents traced the first seven generations from Semyon Tarbeyev, but after that the family line could no longer be followed.  There were Tarbeyevs who held notable ranks or offices in the service of the state, and Tarbeyev families were numbered among the nobility in the Russian provinces of Vitebsk, Vologda, Kazan, Orenburg, Penza and Tambov.  My father’s immediate Tarbeyev ancestors came from Vitebsk province in White Russia (Belarus), which was formerly a part of the Russian Empire, but is now a separate country.


The Tarbeyev family crest from a nineteenth century book documenting the history of the Russian noble families.

My father was highly interested by the discoveries the researcher was making, but he died in 2004, when the research was only partly completed.  In 2017 I formed a plan to visit Russia to connect with my Russian family heritage.  So I got in touch again with the person who had done the earlier family research, and she continued to do family research into the Benges’ Tarbeyev roots.  In 2017 she came to the end of her research, having identified four generations of Tarbeyevs who had lived in the province of Vitebsk before my great grandfather Ivan Mikhailovich Tarbeyev.  The earliest ancestor found was simply mentioned as Matvey, the father of Pyotr Matveyevich Tarbeyev who was the Governor of Vitebsk province from 1800 to 1802.  The connection with the ancient Tarbeyev family was clear, but the intervening links had been lost.  Because of some uncertainties about staffing in the parish I decided not to go to Russia in 2017, but planned to undertake my visit in 2018.

At this point some unusual things happened.  I heard that a Russian man had featured my great grandfather in a museum he had created.  My father had been pretty down to earth about his heritage, willing to point out that the family were only minor nobility and that there were many generals in the Russian army in the First World War.  So I was not sure why someone would want to focus on my great grandfather’s life in particular.  What I learned was that the Russian man, Pyotr Gabrielyan, was a friend of my cousin Tony.  Pyotr and Tony had met in Malaysia, where Tony had been running a holiday resort.

It turned out that Pyotr had been interested by Tony’s story that he had Russian heritage, and so Pyotr had done some research into the General’s life and had featured him in a museum he had created when he built a school and a church in his local town of Otradnaya, in Krasnodar Province in the south of Russia.
Major-General Ivan Mikhailovich Tarbeyev

I further learned that Pyotr was coming to New Zealand to visit Tony, who was now living here, and that they would visit Wellington together in March 2017.  I arranged to take Tony and Pyotr to visit the grave of the General, who had died in Wellington in 1925 and was buried in the Karori Cemetery.  My two brothers, Christopher and Matthew, their wives, Diane and Francie, my mother, and Helen and I all met with Pyotr and Tony that same afternoon.  One thing I was very keen to ask was why he was so interested in General Tarbeyev in particular.  Was it simply an expression of his friendship for Tony, or was there some additional reason as well?


Tony with Pyotr at the General's grave.


Part of the family at the meeting with Pyotr.  From left: my brother Matthew, Pyotr, my brother Christopher, me, my cousin Tony, and in front, my mother Wendy.

In order to ensure that we had a worthwhile conversation when we did not speak Russian and Pyotr did not speak much English, I asked a local interpreter, Olga Suvorova, to come and translate for us, which she did.  Through her, Pyotr explained that the Armenian people, who suffered so greatly from the Armenian genocide by the Turks in 1915-16 during the First World War, have long committed themselves to keeping alive the names of those who helped to protect or support them during this ordeal.  Pyotr’s reasoning was that the General, as a senior officer in the Russian army of the day, was part of the attempts to defeat the Turks and to support the Armenians.  So he had taken it as a moral duty to preserve the memory of General Ivan Tarbeyev.  But actually, it went further than that too.  Pyotr’s friendship with Tony was deep, and he was passionate about the connection he felt with the General and his descendants.  This was personal for him.  (Later, in 2018, a grandchild born in his family was called Ivan in memory of the General.)  Pyotr warmly welcomed anyone in the family who would like to come to Russia to do so, as his guest. 

A strange coincidence (if you can call it that) about this meeting was that Olga Suvorova explained to us that her husband, Stuart Prior (formerly New Zealand Ambassador to the Soviet Union) was now the Honorary Consul to Belarus, and that he would be most interested to hear about this Belarusian connection.  With Olga, Stuart was indeed amazingly supportive of our interest in our family connections in Russia and Belarus, and my efforts to find out more about them.  Later that year I visited them in their home.  I was fascinated by their very considerable knowledge about the early twentieth century in Russia and the Russian revolution.  From a photo of my grandmother as a teenager Stuart could identify the school she went to in Saint Petersburg.  They also spoke knowledgeably about aspects of the challenges of the revolutionary period in Russia, of which I was unaware.



My grandmother in her school uniform, pictured with a friend.  My grandmother is on the right.

Stuart offered to see if he could find a researcher in Belarus who might look further into the archives there to see whether any other information about the Tarbeyev family could be found.  However, a response from Belarus took a long time to come.  In March 2018 I was booking flights for my sabbatical in September and October 2018 and a researcher had still not been found.  So I arranged to visit Belarus for the permissible five days without a visa, in the hope that a researcher might be found and I could end up visiting the area where the former family estate was, and maybe even connect with some distant relations.

As we waited for progress in Belarus, another surprise discovery was made at home.  In my father’s personal papers four letters in Russian were found, which had been kept by the General.  Two were letters that we thought at first were written to him during the war by his mother - but may have been from his sister, Manya (Maria).  One letter was written by his brother Georgii, and another was from an unknown person.  It was amazing to hear these voices from the past expressing their own personal concerns on often quite day to day matters, and their love for the man they knew.


A letter to Ivan from his brother Georgii, dated 20 September 1917, just before the Russian Revolution.

In April 2018 Alexey Adashkin, a friend of Stuart Prior’s in Belarus, gave me contact details for a researcher who could look further into my family history and attempt to identify the exact location of the Tarbeyev family estate and the three villages that had been mentioned as being located on the estate - Puzanovo, Mishki, and Poddybie.

I found many points of connection with the researcher, Alexey Vaytkun.  He was a committed Christian who had also travelled to Jerusalem and to Mt Athos, and he had a very active interest in the history of imperial Russia.  We formed a friendship as he worked to help me make connections with my ancestry in Belarus.  One early and significant discovery he made was of a 52-page largely handwritten inventory of the family estate, named Ekaterinhof after the Tsar’s estate in Saint Petersburg.  This inventory was completed in 1846.

The document, which was found in the Belarusian National Archive, was written in an older form of Russian, and needed to be translated into contemporary Russian before it could be translated into English.  Alexey arranged the translation into contemporary Russian in Belarus, and then Olga Suvorova translated the document into English.  The document gave a full description of the estate, the people and livestock living there, its buildings, crops, the quality of the land etc.  It also gave some idea of the regulations for working the land.  At this time the estate was 436 hectares (just over 1,000 acres).


One of the pages of the inventory of the Ekaterinhof estate, found in the Belarusian National Archive.

Alexey also found a document from 1906 that stated that the Ekaterinhof estate was owned by Colonel Mikhail Pavolovich Tarbeyev, my great grandfather’s father.  At that time, following the liberation of the serfs in 1861 and a further 45 years of history, the estate had been reduced to 170 hectares.

Further to these documents, Alexey tried to find out whether there was any documentary evidence of the estate being confiscated from the family's ownership.  He managed to find in the archives in Vitebsk a document dated 1918, the year after the revolution, which lists the name of former owners of confiscated estates in the relevant district.  However, this mysteriously failed to mention the Tarbeyev family and the Ekaterinhof estate.  It seemed that something had occurred between the revolution and the time that this document was composed, to alienate the property from the family without a written record.  I was disappointed with this news as I had wanted to be able to corroborate a family story that had been with us in New Zealand for 100 years.  But the record of how the land was alienated had been lost.

Alexey made connections with a local museum in that district and he was able to identify the precise location of the family estate.  It appeared that the buildings on the farm, including the main house, were no longer there (but later I heard that there might be a building or buildings in the villages that dated from the time of the original estate).  The museum staff were very helpful to Alexey, who found that my great grandfather’s brother Georgii had been a teacher in the district for a short period after the revolution and had lived for a few years with a number of other family members on a farmlet on the former estate.  That farmlet had still been called Ekaterinhof.

Meanwhile Stuart Prior’s friend Alexey Adashkin had made contact with the manager of tourism and mass media in the local Shumilino District Council, Mrs Valentina Novitskaya.  She generously arranged to host me and Pyotr, my travelling companion, for a visit to the district.  We would visit the Shumilino district where the former estate had been on Saturday 8 September, and she would provide an interpreter who was a local teacher of English.  Then on the Sunday she would take Pyotr and me to Polotsk, a city where my great grandfather had been born, to visit a famous monastery and the cathedral, which had been built in the twelfth century, before dropping us back to Vitebsk to catch our train back to Minsk.

Once Alexey had completed the research he could undertake in Minsk and Vitebsk, he sent a full report to me.  He also sent to the local newspaper in Shumilino District a draft article that was later published.  It mentioned my interest in the Tarbeyev family who had lived in the Ekaterinhof estate in the district over 100 years ago, and invited anyone who was connected with that family to contact Alexey.  To date no one has responded.

In just four days’ time I will be flying off to Minsk, to meet Pyotr, Tony’s friend, who will travel with me in Belarus.  Alexey Vaytkun the researcher, and Stuart Prior’s friend Alexey Adashkin (who contacted Alexey the researcher and Valentina Novitskaya in Shumilino District) will join us for dinner that night to talk and reflect on what has already been a remarkable journey of discovery.  None of this would have been possible without the kindness and support of strangers, friends and family.

The plan for my time away is:
·         6-10 September: Belarus
·         11-20 September: Armenia and Georgia
·         21 September - 15 October: Russia
·         15-22 October: United Arab Emirates
·         23 October: Arrive home

Thanks for joining me on my journey, visiting family history.
Peter